callipygian said:
It's called slowplaying. Basically, he's flopped an invincible hand on the flop, but he was afraid you didn't have enough to call an all-in raise on the flop. So he waited and hoped that you'll find something on the turn or river that's good enough to call with, knowing that you can't outdraw him.
You are, of course, correct but I fear you give him too much credit - at that stage I had committed myself and was virtually cleared out. Pot to stack ratio - good point. I shall bear that one in mind in the future.
A8o - not a great hand I know, but in this case it's virtually irrelevent as this was a pure, "I'm going to fly a kite on this one" bluff and it wouldn't have made any difference if I'd had the worse hand of any combo. I posted this not to highlight what a $#it NLHE player I am (although I don't think I'm any better or any worse than those I play with) but as an illustration of the disastrous beats I've experienced in the 3-4 months since starting to play. And no, I'm not applying a selective memory on this - I have suffered from these beats far more often than I have benefitted (I have taken the odd sizeable pot on the river, but things like this really haven't happened that often).
When I started out, I was under the distinct impression that it was a game of skill and that with putting some time in, like blackjack, it was possible to raise oneself above the level of playing by gut feel. Why this is, of course, possible the one thing I have learned is that at the level I play at, and with the amount of time I am willing to devote to it, the volatility in the game is off the Richter scale, and remains it virtually a crap-shoot. It raises the profound question of whether the game is one of skill or chance, and what factors make it which? Perhaps my expectations at the outset were off?
After a year and a quarter I now consider myself to be a reasonably sound BJ player. To get to the same level in HE, I think it is going to need far far more time and effort to acquire the knowledge and skill, and far far more hours of play to even out the peaks and troughs to a point where the skill results in more wins than losses. There's a regular, late night, TV programme on Poker in the UK and one of the presenters reckons it's possible to go from being a complete novice to a "pretty reasonable player" in just 6 months. Possibly, but I've yet to see any discussions on the effect of variance and the fact that even if you're "pretty reasonable" (subjective I know) fate might just kick your ass - regularly. I think this is more to do with massaging egos (ego seems to be a big part of the game) in confirming to the viewers that anyone with 6 months practice under their belt is an above average player? Wouldn't want to interupt that regular flow of fish-$/£s to the tables now, would we?
I think there will come a point where I shall just walk away and let others play the game - although I don't know how far I'm from that yet. There are other factors to consider as well - anecdotal I know, but you do seem to meet far more testosterone ridden, macho a$$holes playing poker than at the BJ tables, as my visit to the tournament a couple of weeks ago showed.
We'll see how thing go . . . . .