Well, pitch is indeed different. A little bit tougher, because the rhythm is not as predictable as the shoe.
By the time I finally played a pitch game, I was very comfortable with the shoes. But when I started playing (just heads up or with one other player), it was bedlam. I was using two hands to hold the cards, I wasn't signaling my plays right, and I lost the count several times. Fortunately, this only lasted about 30 minutes.
You sound a little less comfortable at the shoes, so pitch push you over the cliff. But here's some suggestions:
1) Backcount. Watch a game being played, first get a feel for the order of actions, then see if you can keep the count.
2) Start with dealer's upcard (first card you see)
3) Next do your two cards.
4) Next do anyone else's hand you see (BJ, splits, doubles, and peeking). Make sure to mark these as "dirty" in your mind so you don't re-count them.
5) Now count individual hit cards as they are dealt
6) Count any players' hand pairs as they bust.
7) Count out dealers cards as she plays out the hand.
8) Count remaining players' hands as the dealer flips them over (make sure to keep the flipped over cards seperate from their draw cards).
9) If the dealer gets a blackjack, then be prepared to count REALLY REALLY FAST.
It's kind of fun.
The other part that's interesting, but I'm not really up to yet, is "inferring" remaining cards based on other players' play actions. For instance, I had a 16 vs dealer 10. I was right on the cusp of hitting or standing. I realize that none of the players before me had taken additional cards, so they must have had high ones. So I went ahead and hit. I've seen some writing on the subject, but I forget where.