aslan said:
It's not logical that a dealer is lucky or unlucky, that attitude makes any difference if we follow the same rules no matter what attitude we have, or that fast dealers are more successful than slow....but it sure seems so! One thing....our attitude and/or perception of what seems to be happening can influence our card playing decisions if we are not extremely careful.
Well sure however there's no discounting the psychological. This isn't something for the Voodoo board either.
There have been studies where people were exposed to a negative thought early in the day. A man walks in to the office at work one morning and the confederate of the study group says to him "Gee Bob you look just awful. Do you have a cold virus or something"?
In fact Bob isn't ill at all, nor is his appearance different from normal but the psychological effect of the negative energy makes him have a bad day. he may even catch a cold or stomach problem from the suggested (untrue) remark.
So it is with certain dealers. Like the one I had the other night who always fakes like he has a blackjack under every ace. Makes a motion like he's going to tip his hole card for a natural and everyone at the table freezes. No blackjack though. He makes it appear like he's trying to be funny and maybe it is a sincere effort to make us laugh. However it really isn't funny to anyone.
The dealers I have the better feeling with are usually women of any age who are competent, not overly fast and appreciative of tips and compliments. Under these conditions I can drop a hundred dollar bet and not feel depleted on a emotional level.
As for the more "sinister" type dealers? I drop thirty bucks and feel like crap. Especially if he's of the shaved head variety. There's just something wrong with a guy that shaves his head bald. It's a popular style here but I feel like there's just something wrong with baldness that isn't natural.
Like they're trying to get attention by appearing evil.
Not that there's anything wrong with naturally bald men. Just the ones who shave it off on purpose. Will never understand that.