megancolynn said:
Please answer the following questions:
Regarding to counting.
1. What is the worst thing that has happened to you?
2. What is the best thing that has happened to you?
3. What is a common misconception about you/the group?
4. What would someone have to do to get kicked out of the group?
5. What effect has being in the group effected your life?
6. What are your feelings about the group?
7. What is your favorite thing about it?
8. How long to you plan to continue with the group?
9. What's the biggest profit you have made?
10. What is the most you have lost?
My AP 'career' began playing poker and other games besides BJ many, many years ago, so I'll throw in some comments from then as well:
1. Worst Thing: (Poker) Discovering I was in a game where cheating was involved and not having any recourse other than to leave....down, of course. (BJ) Nothing I would consider 'bad' has ever happened. Even a curable STD so graciously given to me by a cocktail waitress was worth it - she was oh-so-hot!
2. Best: Excluding winning, I've been lucky enough to meet a couple of individuals I would have never met otherwise, and the relationships turned fortuitous both monetarily and emotionally.
3. Misconceptions: Prior to BJ, the notion that I was a gambler. That was dispelled before playing BJ, so the people that matter most understood my AP BJ play from the start.
4. Kicked Out: Don't have a 'group', so I'm not sure.
5. Affect/Effect: Don't even have to think about this - AP has made me a more patient human being.
6. Feelings About The Group: To me, there are two groups
- Those that talk about playing or that play so infrequently that I don't consider them APs
- Those that actually play
The former is like any other group that has all sorts of theories/models/ideas about the subject. Some are good, some are bad, but they'll never know what it's like to walk the walk.
The latter is like any other group that participates in the activity. Some are good, some are bad, and the activity itself won't change their core being.
7. Favorite Thing: Removing money from the equation, the same 'freedoms' being self-employed offered (not many, but they
really count). Like self-employment, it sounds a lot better than it really is, but if you are successful, the freedoms one enjoys are unparalleled (not to be confused with having to work less - that's for employees).
8. How Long Will I Continue: Until I get bored. Not the same boredom that comes with the territory - the
other boredom!
9. Biggest 'Profit': Knowing that I've learned a skill that most people who enter a casino will never learn.
10. Most Lost: Money aside, I haven't lost anything!
Best ~ L.I.A.