Reputation
Vicky,I dont think it's a good idea to have a reputation of being known to mess up ploppies games,especially if it's at a casino you enjoy and visit frequently. I try to get along and joke with everybody(if possible)and will often stay on my stiff hands against dealer bust cards during negative counts even though my index number says hit. These are marginable plays during my minimum bet and not hitting has an insignificant -ev%. In other words I'm giving up very little to keep the ploppies(and pit boss?)happy.
However during high counts I make my play as it is called for without getting many dirty looks. From my experience ploppies dont seem to care if we stay on 15v10,16v10,12v2,etc. or double on 10v10,8v6,etc. It's the "You took the dealers bust card" they complain about most of the time,which usally happens in negative counts when we deviate from basic strategy. If I were you,I'd take less hits during negative counts against the dealers up card more often to keep the damn FLOW going and ploppies happy.
We as card counters should get try to get along with ploppies when possible,after all,they pay our wages:$)
Good luck,
Tom