A.C. Jan. 25-27

[creeping panther]

Nj45Lady

Dont put words in my mouth John Doe, I dont appreciate it at all. The point is not to think you can just walk all over me because I am a woman and say whatever runneth out of your egotistical mouth. To the man loaded up on testosterone the reality is, they listen to him before they listen to me if one of us is to say leave me alone or leave her alone. Get it? Now a gentleman never puts himself in this position to begin with. The arrogance on this board by some people is overwhelming. I will leave you boys to play with your toys.

You have done a nice job here and I would hate to see you go off in a huff over some jerks rude, childish comments. Hang around, you are an asset to the site.

CP

 

[ChefJJ]

You have done a nice job here and I would hate to see you go off in a huff over some jerks rude, childish comments. Hang around, you are an asset to the site.

CP

I second that, CP. Everybody just needs to take a step back...aggression via a internet message board is a waste of energy.

good luck

 

[Automatic Monkey]

You have done a nice job here and I would hate to see you go off in a huff over some jerks rude, childish comments. Hang around, you are an asset to the site.

CP

Heh heh heh heh he said "ass-et"!

Seriously though, as blackjack players we enter palaces of vice, ignorance and mental disease every time we go out to play and I agree that a person who is so sensitive that a mere sexual innuendo is going to throw them off kilter they probably need to work on their emotions a little bit before they go out to play.

Not that we should be gratuitously rude to one another, but the original comment is something that I would say with a smile to a woman my age I just met in a bar and I would expect a good-natured wisecrack in return, not anyone getting offended.

 

[Thunder]

This comes to mind..

:laugh:

 

[Blue Efficacy]

nj45lady

Look, I really mean no ill will toward you, and am not as immature as my comments toward you would lead one to believe. I am simply making a point, that first of all, you need to deal with assholes in the casino, that's part of casino blackjack. It's gotta be worse for a woman, a white woman that is, but as discussed previously women have advantages, too. If you can't take this kind of "heat" on a message board you're going to have a tough time in real life.

Second, and this pertains moreso to message boards than real life, if somebody is being a "troll" (which I admit I was mildly trolling,) if you react severely the results will not be desirable. I am sure that you and your husband are rude, annoying, arrogant people based on the way you present yourself here, but nevertheless I am going to attempt to regain civility and apologize for my remarks. I could have you pegged wrong.

 

[nj45lady]

Actually Blue, I am one of the sweetest kindest funniest people you could ever meet in person. I have met one AP several times now, I just dont know who he is on these boards or if he is on these boards. I have a line which you have not crossed, but you need to realize if you push I will push back (a little harder) thats the way life works to stay in the game when your a woman playing with men

I am new here and dont want to give the impression you can say or do anything and I will just sit and take it when it borders on being mean spirited.
FLirting, sexual innuendos, AM makes them all the time, I think they are funny! But harrassment isn't right under any condition and even at the blackjack tables the pit comes over and screams at the men who exhibit ill behavior without me ever mentioning a thing. I am very silent at the table and very observant and I engage in conversation with those I know I can get along with, I leave the assholes alone. I am not sure I get hit on anymore except by older men, but hey they hit on everyone. I really do not have an attitude at all. I have come on these board asking a million questions and thanking everyone who is helping me, and these boards have made my game a whole lot better.
Thanks to Flash, nottoshabby. Thunder, AM,Tarzan, creeping Panther and the likes.
These boys I like........

 

[Blue Efficacy]

Actually Blue, I am one of the sweetest kindest funniest people you could ever meet in person.

As long as you only threaten people online, I suppose you're harmless

 

[nottooshabby]

nj45lady,

Don't let this incident keep you from doing what you're doing . . . I'll be in downtown Vegas this weekend and will give you the lowdown when I return

nottooshabby