Mr. T said:
It is usually not the heat from the knowledgeabe players or the novice. It is these know-something players. They think their play is the only right one and anybody who does not play exactly like them are not only stupid ( yes I heard this word mentioned this last session ) but is upsetting the right flow of cards.
I am scared of getting bitten here.
This happens to all players at one time or another. You simply need to decide BEFORE you sit down how you will handle it.
This weekend the player to my right was upset that I hit my 12 vs. dealer 2. I busted and the dealer draws to a 21 causing the table to lose. He made a big deal of it and I simply ignored him.
Two shoes later same scenario. I hit my 12 vs dealer 2. I bust and the dealer drew to 20 causing the table to lose.
He leaned over to me and said, "Why you hit 12? You cause table to lose. Why you play that way?"
I was calm and collected because I had anticipated this. I turned to him and said simply, "I'm sorry you don't like that but BJ isn't a team sport. It's my money and I'll hit my 12 when I want to. If you don't like the way I play there's a spot at that table over there," as I pointed across the isle.
I wasn't rude upset or angy, just the facts. He actually apologized to me at that point and sat down. Three hands later here comes the 12 again, this time versus a dealer 3. I hit and get the 8. The dealer flips a ten for 13, 3 and Jack - busting.
I turned to my right and asked him, well aren't you glad I hit THAT time? He smiled and the dealer proceeded to dump several hands after that. As the table started making money the incident was soon forgotten.
If you are afraid of confrontation then try to sit at a table by yourself. If you can't do that when you sit down announce to the ploppies, "I want you to know that I hit 12 versus a dealer 12", or something along those lines.
However, when all else fails and you run into that dumb brute and you get scared, walk away, there are more tables and in the long run it isn't worth getting into a fight.
If you can afford it play at higher limit tables. The loud mouth, know it all drunk ploppies don't usually swim in the deeper waters. :devil: