ExhibitCAA said:
BUT, while you were at your engineer job for 40-50 hours this past week, what do you think I was doing?
Can I take a stab at this one?
Sitting on the beach with you laptop and a Mi Tai, looking at all your bank accounts wondering where to put all your money in these uncertain times?
No? I was wrong? Darn it.
But all kidding aside, after reading all the posts in this thread,
I would consider the "Pro" a person who is in the same position as the small business owner. Not the CEO of a public corporation, not the lawyer working for a large firm, not the Cardiologist working with a dozen other partners where the stress of maintaining a "lifestyle" is shared among a group.
I would put the "Pro" in the field of Gambling/gaming/etc.. in the same category as I was 10 years ago.
Particularly, a small business owner.
You have to run and find new places to work, in construction you have to run to find new jobs to bid on, they just don't fall in your lap. If you piss off a customer, it's almost a guarantee you won't be getting anymore work from them. No different then getting 86'd.
Besides yourself, there are families, your loyal employees, that rely on you to provide for. The salaries, benefits, medical, etc. etc.
Then you have your own family to provide for food, shelter, healthcare, schooling etc... etc... if you don't find the work, you'll go hungry... and there's no free comps to fill your belly.
As the small business owner you work 7 days a week, if not in the field, then taking care of business, the bills, invoicing, TAXES, , proposals, etc... all those things the person working for someone else has no cares or worries about... their only worry is that the paycheck is there at the end of the week.
The owner, he sometimes has to worry that there's enough left for his family after everything else has been taking care of.
Vacations? What are those?
Of course over a period of years life should get easier for both the small business owner and the Pro player, but thats only if they played their cards right... no pun intended.
After many years of being that small business owner and it was a profitable one, I walked away from it, surely I miss it. Now I work for a medium sized business owner, feel the weight of those similar issues, but don't feel the stress that weight creates. Of course all work places have a level of stress, but nowhere near the level the owner bears.
Being a weekend warrior has no stress (unless your betting with the farm, house, car, plastic, etc.. you get the point). You win, you lose, those are the risks you knowingly walked into. Ok .. so you go without coffee in the morning for a week on your way into work, or you went a little overboard and can't party next weekend. Big freakin deal.
If the pro loses, as does the small business owner, he's got nothing left but to pan for gold.
It's not how much they bet, how big a spread, what games they play, the size of they're BR, how many hours they play, or even how much they travel.
It wasn't a bunch of schooling and a long "hypocritical" oath.. and POOF... your a pro.. now go hang up that shingle.
A "Pro" has the ability to balance all the elements and rise above others.
BJC