why does (if it does) mood affect play?
Hi Friends,
I thought this was appropriate for a thread about losses. Why does mood affect play? Does it really, or do we just remember the events better? I have the idea that when I am happy go lucky, and just "fooling around" that I win a lot, and if I am being studious, overly serious, and "worried" about whether I win or not, I lose. I haven't kept any statistics on this to see if it is true or not. Perhaps it isn't that my play is all that different, but I just remember the event better. I think if I play while "happy go lucky" if I do lose I just shrug it off and go find something else fun to do so I don't "remember" the loss, and if I win, I was "up" so the memory is reinforced. On the other hand, if I am "down" and I win, I have the Eyeore (spelling?) response, "oh well, at least I didn't lose", and if I lose, the memory is reinforced because I was down, "see, I knew I shouldn't play when I am down".
I don't know if it is the memory thing or not, but I asked several Yoga teachers I know for exercises to do to "raise" energy levels, it seems that doing these exercises, thus elevating mood, makes a difference.
The worst outing I ever had was my first outing after I decided to give up my day job, I got completely hammered, but my friends all told me before I went, "you shouldn't go right now, you are too worried about losing". I'm not sure if there is any credence to this or not.
What is your experience? Does your mood affect your play? If so, why do you think that is? Could it be that when you are "down" you make too many mistakes? Or does mood just make us remember the events more clearly?
Regards,
Steve