You can split tens a few times on low count min bets for it to stand out less when you do it on a high count. Obviously only do it when the pit boss is watching, and the dealer has a 6 or 5 out for it to have the least amount of impact on EV.
When you split on high counts, use risk averse adjusted indices (split on 6 at +5, and split on 5 at +6), and when you do do it take a break at the end of the shoe.
If you don't want to split 10's, Doubling 8's vs 6s and 5s at counts of +2 and +4 respectively is way less of a sweat inducing move, and recoups half the EV lost from not splitting 10s.