Boy this thread is going around and around in circles. I don't think anyone suggested that not splitting tens is a better choice (EV-wise) because you may get an extra round. I am the one who first brought up that not splitting ten's may give you and extra round, especially if you play heads up and I believe what I said was I think it is a consideration that is often overlooked. If you make the decision to forgo splitting tens, based on other concerns, some of the lost EV can be made up by getting an extra round. But that is not the reason to make that choice. The only reason to forgo making that play is heat/longevity concerns.
Simulations clearly show splitting tens at the right count to be the best play EV-wise. If you choose not to do so you are giving up EV. (although from the numbers in AutoMonks sim posted in post #4 of this thread, you may not be giving up as much as some think) But still giving up EV.
Most of us do choose to give up EV for longevity, whether you realize it or not. If you were only concerned with maximizing EV, you would be spreading table minimum to table maximum. Of course you wouldn't last long, so most players tone that down to a more acceptable level. Forgoing an attention grabbing play like splitting tens is along the same lines. You forgo some EV in exchange for longevity.
Now some players aren't concerned about longevity or don't play often enough to worry to much about it. Players that play a lot, like myself tend to consider longevity much more. Again, this is a decision each player needs to make based on what is right for him, and his circumstances, betting levels how much he plays and his longevity concerns.
Some players have mentioned that they don't get heat where they play or at the level they play. By all means split tens then. For me, here in Vegas, I feel like splitting tens with my max bet gets noticed and is not worth the risk, so I don't do it often. I feel this way not just because of the attention the move brings on it's own, but because of the added attention brought on by dealers calling out "splitting tens" and/or other players groaning and moaning.
When playing heads up, I am a little more aggressive with splitting tens because one of those problems has been removed, as their are no other players to draw extra attention to the play. Also because heads up play moves much quicker, you have a better chance to get through the play with minimal attention.