aslan said:
So when you say "expected" it ironically is not that you expect this to be the actual value, or even very close to it, but that it is the best you can do considering the wide range of possibilities. You can probably surmise that the actual value will likely be closer to the expected value than to either extreme. Can you say any more than that? So when we pick the strategy with the highest EV, we are actually picking our best educated guess as to what the actual result will be.
You are not trying to predict or guess any specific result. That is what gamblers do. "You missed your winning result ? Oh no problem, let's try again, eventually we must hit the win - right ?"
What APs do is something different, which is enjoying the "central limit theorem" (call it long run): If you average a random quantity over a large set, your result will be reasonable close to the expectation value of that quantity. You can even compute how likely you are how close. Nothing more, nothing less. If you play a positive expectation strategy long enough, you are
expected to be close to that value.
Statistics is never about the single value of an individual observation. It is about this beautiful property - which, although all individual observations are intrinsically random, - guarantees you the expectation value "almost surely".
I don't find it ironical, maybe you don't agree on the wording "expectation" with literature. You have all right to disagree with the wording. You can claim you don't live for the central limit and this is perfectly right. But that doesn't alter statistical laws within that limit.