i couldn't agree with you more. it is a personal decision. which is why i take it personally when people criticize me for not making the same decision that they make.ScottH said:Ian Anderson has a very good reason to tip. He is not tipping to "be nice", or because "he ought to". It's sctricly a way of gaining cover. He is playing at a high enough level where the tips are a small % of the EV, so it's not costing much to tip, relatively.
ChefJJ has a good approach to thinking about this. Some people think you should tip, some dont, but nobody is right or wrong. The most important thing he mentioned is, don't take it personally! If you think tipping is important then do it! If not, then dont! That simple.
My point: if you are too stingy to throw a dollar or two, why are you gambling?
shadroch, you seem to think that whatever is "normal" is the right thing to do. at one point in time it was normal to have slaves, it never made it right. just because it something is a social norm, doesn't mean it should be one.I'm getting the overall impression that all you really care about is yourself
Just so you know,in the off chance no one has ever told you,when enjoying a comped meal it is normal to tip as if you were paying for it.Or more.
When we eat at a nice steakhouse,for example,$20 a person is the average.
these remarks show a sense of superiority. if you want to tip, go ahead, but don't tell me what i should or shouldn't do.